Robin Werderits loves to get in the middle of things. Not in a "dark" kind of way like carnage-hungry paparazzi or lowlifes provoking and filming bum fights. No, Robin's arena is divorce proceedings. She likes to get in there and help out, kind of like a therapist-slash-lawyer. She knows people and knows how to work with them.
"In one proceeding the wife came in with a list of demands for the husband: 'You will do this, this, and this,'" says Werderits at a double-latte clip. "She thought our company's job was to make the husband sign the papers at all cost. The husband refused to sign it, so I asked him what he wanted. And he looked at me in a way that told me no one had ever asked him that before. That was touching."
Through Werderits' persistence the couple reached an agreement. After all, it is her business, or that of Core Mediation Services. She says the company's goal is to help couples work it out without having to go to court. She says that once you enter the courtroom, all the power of your future, house, custody, etc. is held by the judge.
Her knack for mediating comes naturally from her background as a teacher and her experience as a mom. She warms up to people quickly (just like she did to this reporter), and is sharp as a tack.
"I make suggestions," she says. "That's what I do. I never tell someone what to do. Once they have the papers with the agreements, then they can go to a lawyer." By wrangling the subtleties of divorce proceedings through Core Mediation Services, couples dissolving their marriages can save heaps in legal fees.
Core Mediation Services is located at 1264 Higuera in Suite 203. Check 'em out on the web at www.coremediation.org, or call 544-6334 for more info.
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